absinthe and roses

general info //
name: indi
age: 22
pronouns: she/they

abt me //
i'm an artist and adore music! i'm also your local spooky goth witch, and i'm obsessed with halloween :'))before you chat //
i'm autistic and have adhd, as well as a number of other disabilities, both physical and mental. i work full-time so i'm afk frequently. sometimes i don't have the mental spoons to deal with social interaction. it's nothing personal, i just get overwhelmed easily!

i have a large number of hyperfixations and special interests!my long-standing obsessions:
♡ anything to do with music
♡ violin, flute, and piano
♡ ballet
♡ figure skating
♡ animals, specifically cats, dogs, horses, bunnies, guinea pigs, and reptiles
♡ dinosaurs!!
♡ broadway musicals! specifically poto, newsies, and anastasia <3
♡ ANYTHING to do with halloween!!!
♡ horror films, specifically psychological horror
♡ the addams family, nightmare before christmas, hocus pocus, wednesday, the haunted mansion
♡ monster high, sanrio, bluey (don't @ me)
♡ reading, writing, and art!
♡ house of hollow by krystal sutherland
♡ belladonna by adalyn grace
♡ long lost by jacqueline west

current hyperfixations:
- my current novel i'm writing <33
- aurora
- newsies
- enchanted (film)
- maleficent (film)
- ghost (band)
- the disappearance of the girl (album by phildel)
- monster high g3
- bullet journaling

dni if:
- you meet the basic dni criteria
- you're a fake claimer or fake disabilities/disorders because it's "cute"
- you're a minor. this is non-negotiable. i am an adult, therefore i'm uncomfortable if a minor is in my dms unless i give express permission. on a server is fine, but please don't dm me if you are a minor.
- you kinkshame
- you're anti-bdsm
- you're anti-body mod
- you're anti-goth or extremely conservative in any regard
- you fetishize goth people in ANY MANNER. it's creepy and gross. kindly go fuck yourself if you're going to fetishize me.

trigger warnings //
please tw the following:
- mentions of ed/disordered eating
- mentions of grooming/childhood sa
- mentions of r*pe or sa in general
- animal cruelty
- gore
- self-harmdon't talk about //
- venting/trauma dumping, unless you ask first and i give permission. i don't always have the energy to listen to someone venting.
- lgbtq+ discourse. i don't have enough energy.
- anything overtly sexual, unless we already have that type of friendship. just because i'm open about what i'm into doesn't mean i always want to talk about it.
- how goth is 'just an aesthetic' and 'not a music-based subculture', and how you 'don't need to listen to the music to be goth'. please, go educate yourself on the birth of the subculture.
- how 'all goth girls are kinky'. it wasn't funny the first time i heard it, and it's still not funny.